You are a Tool, What is your Job?

Many Christian people today are not living the successful lives that God intended for them because they have missed the purpose for their life.

Eph 2:10

For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.

If you are going to live successfully, you have to know what it is you are all about. What’s your job? What functionality do you have? You need to know the answers to those questions so that you as a tool are not used for something other than what you were created for. We all know that tools that are used for things that they were not created for run the risk of getting damaged.

The other day I was asked to hang a framed family photo on our living room wall by my wife. I of course oblige and went searching for a nail to use. Once I found the right size nail for this over sized picture frame I then started looking for a hammer. I looked for about five minutes and due to my laziness I decided that a medium size wrench would do the job for me (don’t get too self-righteous, you’ve done it too!). Sometimes being lazy causes us to use whatever is handy and not always what is right in order to get the job done.

With the wrench I knew I could get the nail in the wall, but I was not completely for sure how effective I was going to be with it. There’s a chance I could dent the wall, bend the nail, or scratch up the wrench.

Too many times Christians today are not functioning or flowing in the thing they were created for, and consequently, they are not effective. And sometime they two get hurt and damaged.

You do have a purpose. The bible tells us all that in Eph 2. This week pray that God shows you that purpose, and then develop the gifts God have given you to fulfill that purpose.

Why Church - Hebrews 10:19-25

Introduction

Why is it that the word “church” is so misunderstood?

· The world has given the definition of the word church as the building were we meet. Correct?

· Think a minute and then tell me what do you think about when you hear the word “church”.

 

How should the church be seen today?

· So many times we fail to think about what it is we are to be.

· We come together and we allow the influence of culture overcome what our natural reaction should be to what God has done.

· We don’t think about the reason we are here, or at least not as we should most of the time.

· When the idea of church becomes where we go instead of who and whose we are we have lost sight of the reason we come together

 

So, really Why Church?

· Because church is who we are.

· It is not where we are to be but who we are to be with.

· It is important that we understand that the church is not a building nor a temple that is built upon Holy Ground.

· 1 Corinthians  6:19 “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own…”

· We are the church!

 

What has church meant to you ?

· Family 1 John 1:5-7

· People of a like mind Phil. 2:2

Have we missed the mark?

· How can we want to miss out on this?

· How can attending worship be something we consider only if nothing else is going on?

· Look at what this day, today, cost.

· It took the life of the only perfect man who ever walked this earth.

· How are we doing with church folks?

 

Things to know about Church

· Church is a family

· We are the church

· Once we know of it Church is not a option

Why Ask Why?

Introduction

The question of why is always one that seems to come at some of the most inopportune times.

· No one usually wants to answer that question when its asked for the simple reason, we as humans do not like having to explain why things are what they are.

· Over the next several weeks we will be looking at answering the questions of why certain things are the way that they are.

· We will be taking a Biblical view of these and I need you all to be praying about this study. There may be a time when you feel like someone is stepping on your toes but we all need to agree to work through this together.

 

Goals

1. To give biblical belief as to why we live our lives the way we do.

2. To give biblical belief as to why we serve God the way we do.

3. To grow in biblical understanding

4. To be able to share with others what we have learned

 

I know that in my life I have asked questions and have been asked questions that have stretched my faith and my mind. Is that true for you?

 

Jesus understood the importance of asking people questions concerning their faith.

· In the Gospel of Luke, Jesus is recorded to have asked 89 questions; in Matthew 85; and in Mark, 47.  When reading through the Gospels, you will encounter one question after another. Many of these questions were questions in response to questions.

· Many times Jesus answered questions by asking questions. Its obvious Jesus communicated with people like no one else.

What would a marriage be like if we stopped asking questions? Get people’s answers in the room.

Story of the man and wife…wife eats the heel of the loaf to save her husband from having to eat it. 

Finally after thirty years of marriage and being empty nesters he goes to make a sandwich and there are only heels left. He apologizes for eating the heels that his wife apparently loves because she always ate them. She tells him that she really doesn’t like heals but only ate them because she didn’t think he liked them. Turns out the heels were his favorite slice and she was eating it because she didn’t think he liked it.

· Questions of why in a relationship are normal and a must to create a stronger relationship.

· We ask “Why” when dealing with our faith and understanding and God gives us the answers in His word. Never ask Why and you’ll never get a answer.

 

We need to be seeking answers so that we may understand what it is that we are to be about as Children of God.

 

· We should never be afraid to ask why about anything we do.

· I have heard people say that if someone is asking why about something then there must be something wrong with their faith.

· I truly believe that most of us at some time or another  have stopped asking why.

· People ask why and challenge our answers and we become defensive and upset because we have to give and answer for what we believe, even sometimes to people who we think should already know.

· But Peter wrote: “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect…” 1 Peter 3:15

· This means to even those we think should already know.

 

Conclusion

· Why ask why?

· The reason is so that we will grow and mature in our faith

· So we may be able to help around us strengthen their faith

· You will either learn from your questions or teach someone else.

God Given Blessings

When we think about the blessings in our lives we think of all the good things that God has given us. We talk about our families, our friends, our church, our jobs, our homes, etc. I want to talk about two blessings that God has given us that we might not necessarily talk about that often.

FIRST – BLESSED WITH A NEED

When people speak of being blessed often they are saying they are blessed on a certain area. Someone might say that they are financially blessed, or they might say they have been blessed with their job, their family, their church.

The first thing God has blessed you with a need for others. As much as we might resist it, God created you to be dependent on Him, and on other believers.

1.      Have you grown in your Christian walk to notice the need for other Christians? In what way

2.      Why do you think God designed us to need each other?

3.      Jesus once said “It is more blessed to give then to receive (Acts 20:35) Do you agree and why?

4.      Have you ever been blessed by your need for others? Share an example of when you have been blessed by your spiritual family.

5.       Read Gal 6:1-5. 

How does this passage apply to you?  What are our Godly responsibilities toward one another?

Financially

SECOND – BLESSED WITH A BURDEN

The Second thing God has blessed you with a burden. A hurt intended to spur you into action.

1.      Name some individuals in the bible who were given burdens. How did God use them to make a difference even though they might have been ruined by it?

a.      A divine burden might…

b.      Make you angry (Moses, exodus 2:11-15)

c.       Break your heart (Nehemiah 1:1-12)

2.      Finish this sentence… My divine burden is…. In other words. What makes your heart ache? What are you most passionate about concerning God’s will and kingdom?

3.      Some people never feel burden from God because they do not expose themselves to his needs. They have hidden themselves, side stepped open doors, and/or bow out of any ministries. Have you seen people practice Christianity like this?

4.      How can you expose yourself more to God’s burdens?

Session 2 You Might Not Finish This Chapter

Session 2

Christianity is about taking broken people, transforming them, and then using those transformed people to transform the world. It’s always been this way, from the moment when the Holy Spirit came upon the early church in Acts 2.

What holds you back from seeking everything God wants for you and is calling you to? My suspicion is that most Christians settle for less simply because they get busy and distracted with so many other things.

Even things as good as jobs, kids, spouses, church programs, helping others, etc. can take our eyes off of what is most important if we begin to view them and use them in the wrong way.

Question and Answer

1. List the elements in your life that keep you distracted. Include both good things and bad things in this list. As I said before good things can take our attention off of the most important things. But why do these good things end up being distractions?

Once you have identified some of these things, it’s important to evaluate why you got distracted in the first place. Why do these good things end up being distractions? God wants you to be diligent and creative in your job. If you’re married, God wants you to devote time, attention, and love toward your spouse. If you have children, God wants you to invest time into their lives, loving them and teaching them how to function in the world that God created. But if you find yourself so focused on these things that you aren’t enjoying God’s presence in the midst of it, consciously trying to honor God through the way you do these activities and pursuing the things that you know God wants you to pursue, then these things have become distractions.

2. How is it that the good things in your life have come to distract you from what is most important?

3. What would it take to adjust your lifestyle and mentality in order to put the most important things back in their proper place?

It’s incredibly important that we keep our lives in the proper perspective. For one thing, we go to great lengths to avoid thinking about death. We all know that life is fragile, but who wants to think about the end of their life? It’s easy to get people to visualize wealth and success, but nobody wants to acknowledge that they could die today. We also like to live as though we were the center of the universe. Most of us would deny this, but when we examine the way we spend our time and money, it sure looks like we are the kings of our own mini-kingdoms. Our lives are focused on our goals, our desires, and our decisions. We could die at any moment and then we know we aren’t the center of the universe.

Start by reading James 4:13-17. After thinking about this then answer the questions below.

4. Make a few notes on this passage. What is James warning against? What is he calling us to do?

5. If James were to say these words specifically to you in the midst of your current life situation, what do you think he would tell you to avoid? What do you think he would tell you to pursue?

6. What are the sources of stress and anxiety in your life?

7. What can you do to remind yourself of God’s care and your dependence on Him in the midst of these stressful situations?

The Christian life is all about dependence on God. Again, this is something that we’d probably all agree on, but most of our lives look more like demonstrations of our own independence than humble attempts to rely on God in every situation. If this is God’s world, if every moment of your life is a gift from God, and if your life is about God’s kingdom rather than your own, then those realities ought to be reflected in the way you live.

8. How can you structure your life to reflect the fact that your every second is dependent on the grace of God?

Once we are reminded of our proper place in the universe, we can begin to function as God intended for us to function. Our lives will be off base and our priorities will be skewed unless we see ourselves as God sees us. Remember that this world is about God, not us. If we live for anything other than God’s glory, we will end with regrets. I’m reminded of the importance of this every time someone around me dies. It’s actually healthy for us to be exposed to death from time to time. Solomon says this explicitly in Ecclesiastes 7. By remembering that our lives are fragile—that it could all be over at any moment—we’ll find it easier to stay focused on the most important things in life.

9. Describe some people in your life who have died abruptly. What were some of their achievements in life and what were their regrets?

10. If today was the day you died, what would you regret, and why?

11. What can you change about your life today to avoid those regrets?

12. Close your time in this session by praying. You’ve been thinking through some pretty heavy issues, and if you’re seriously thinking about making changes in your life to avoid regrets, you likely have some important changes to make. Remember that this life is all 

Session 1 Stop Praying

One of the most frightening aspects of the Christian life is that we can actually become apathetic about speaking to God! This isn’t about getting bored while talking to an economics professor, an old friend, or even your spouse—we have the privilege of talking to God through prayer, and yet most of us pray regularly without thinking about what we’re doing. I’m convinced that our relationships with God would be absolutely transformed if we all took the simple step of considering who God is. Stop and consider who God is. Now take a few minutes to actually consider who it is you’re talking to.

 QUESTION AND ANSWER
 What do you think would come out of your mouth the moment you first saw God? What would be the first words you would say?

 How has your relationship with God and your prayer life been different as a result of reading chapter 1 and considering God’s glory? If your life hasn’t been different enough, how would you like to see it change?

Solomon has some heavy words for those of us who are quick to rush into God’s presence: Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. To draw near to listen is better than to offer the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they are doing evil. Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth. Therefore let your words be few. (Eccl. 5:1–2)

Describe your prayer life. Do you find yourself talking at God, or do you take time to consider who you are talking to and enjoy being awed by His presence? Why do you think you tend to pray the way you do? Inherent in Solomon’s argument is an incredibly high view of God. If God is exactly like us, then we may not see the need to approach Him with a sense of awe. But if God is who He says He is, then Solomon’s words are especially poignant: Only fools rush into the presence of God.

How often do you stop to consider how great God is and how insignificant you are by comparison? When you do, what leads you to this point? If you never do, why do you think you’ve never done this?

How can you build these times of reflection into your lifestyle? Perhaps you’re convinced at this point. Maybe all you needed was a reminder of God’s greatness, and everything you’ve been reading has re-inspired you to view God in all His glory. Even if that’s the case, you still have many obstacles to overcome—not just now, but on an ongoing basis. It’s all but impossible to escape the incessant distractions in our lives. There are so many things—many of them good things—that keep us from thinking about that which is most important in life. Take some time to think about your specific lifestyle and context. Think about what this sort of awareness of God’s greatness would look like as a part of your daily life.

What things in your life distract you from loving and worshipping God the way He deserves to be loved and worshipped? What can you do to overcome these obstacles? In addition to the obstacles and distractions we all face, there is a more subtle and potent aspect of our lives that would keep us from living in light of God’s absolute greatness. Even if we believe that God is greater than we are, we all have to overcome our tendency to view God as an all-powerful genie.

Which aspects of your priorities, thoughts, and actions declare that you exist for God’s service and glory? 

Which aspects of your life declare that God exists for your benefit and service?

If there are aspects of your life that declare that God exists for your benefit and service, how can you begin to reorder these aspects of your life around the reality of God’s greatness and your dependence on Him? Read Revelation 4 and try to imagine yourself standing where John stood and watching this scene unfold. It may seem fanciful, but John is describing reality. As you place yourself in the midst of Revelation 4, allow yourself to experience all of the surprise and awe that John must have experienced. After you’ve spent some time reading and thinking about this passage, continue below.

Which details in this passage strike you the most? Why? Recalling the scene in Revelation 4 would be a great place to start before you pray. But there are many other things you can do to remind yourself of God’s greatness.

What can you do right now to ensure that you will pause before every prayer to consider the God you are praying to?

Spend some time in prayer. Before you begin speaking, however, put into practice some of the realities you’ve been considering. Take time to picture God on His throne. Consider the angels shouting about His holiness and the twenty-four elders throwing their crowns at His feet as they fall on their faces. After you’ve taken some time to remind yourself of who God is and to enjoy the greatness of His presence, then begin talking to Him. But even then, heed Solomon’s warning, and let your words be few.

This week in our small group we are starting a series on the book CRAZY LOVE by Francis Chan. This book is a great find for my family and I can't wait to share it with others. Attached is a link to a prezi that introduces the book. If you have some time please look at this brief prezi with videos and introduction questions.

Crazy Love Introduction on Prezi